{"id":9418,"date":"2026-06-04T09:47:29","date_gmt":"2026-06-04T16:47:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/safecarebc.ca\/?post_type=safetytopic&#038;p=9418"},"modified":"2026-06-04T10:14:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-04T17:14:16","slug":"self-care-for-care-workers","status":"publish","type":"safetytopic","link":"https:\/\/scbcdev.safecarebc.ca\/?safetytopic=self-care-for-care-workers","title":{"rendered":"Self-care for care workers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The self-care blind spot&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Have you ever heard the expression, \u201cThe shoemaker\u2019s children have no shoes\u201d?<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same irony can show up in caregiving. Caregivers spend their days supporting the comfort, wellness, and care of others. Yet many struggle to offer that same care to themselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Does any of this sound familiar?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cI don\u2019t have time.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cOther people have it worse.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cI just need to push through.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cRest has to be earned.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cIf I say no, I\u2019m letting people down.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cSelf-care won\u2019t fix systemic problems anyway.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For many caregivers, resistance to self-care happens so automatically that we may not even recognize it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our identity can become tied to being \u201cthe helper.\u201d Caring for ourselves may feel selfish, unrealistic, weak, or undeserved. We may believe we always need to be the strong one. Emotional numbness, compassion fatigue, or burnout can also become so normalized that they are mistaken for simply \u201cbeing fine.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many caregivers are deeply compassionate toward others while being incredibly hard on themselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why this matters&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Caregiving work is relational. Providing comfort, going the extra step, and showing compassion are often some of the most meaningful parts of the job.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But when we continually ignore our own needs, it affects us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over time, this can contribute to compassion fatigue, burnout, emotional exhaustion, irritability, reduced empathy, difficulty coping, absenteeism, and less satisfaction or enjoyment in our work.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It can also affect the psychological health and safety of the workplace. When people are depleted or overwhelmed, stress can increase, relationships can become strained, and teams may have less capacity to support one another.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And perhaps one of the hardest truths is this: when we do not care for ourselves, it becomes harder to show up as the kind of caregiver we want to be.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The work we value becomes harder to sustain.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Self-care is not indulgence&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-care is often misunderstood as something extra, luxurious, or only possible when we have spare time or energy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-care means noticing and responding to our own physical and emotional needs.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is both action and attitude. It includes the choices we make to protect, maintain, or improve our wellbeing, including how we speak to ourselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-care does not replace the need for safer, healthier systems of work. It does not remove an employer\u2019s responsibility to support psychological health and safety. It does not solve every workplace stressor.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>But it still matters.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Caring for ourselves is not separate from caring for others. It is part of sustaining our ability to keep doing this work well.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What practical self-care can look like<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-care does not have to mean bubble baths or spa days.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It can be practical. It can be part of how we move through the day.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-care can look like:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Saying no without overexplaining&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Taking your entitled breaks without guilt&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Setting clear boundaries&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Admitting that you are tired&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Resting before you reach burnout&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Asking for help earlier&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Booking the doctor\u2019s or dentist's appointment you have been putting off&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Talking to yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend, coworker, or family member&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These actions may sound simple, but they can be difficult when you are used to putting everyone else first.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You deserve the same compassion and care that you so freely give to others.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take a few minutes today to ask yourself: \u201cWhat is one need I have been ignoring, and what is one small step I can take to care for myself?\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"faq-block\" style=\"margin:2rem auto;\"><script type=\"application\/ld+json\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@type\":\"FAQPage\",\"mainEntity\":[{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"Why can self-care feel hard for caregivers?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"Self-care can feel hard when your identity is tied to being \u201cthe helper.\u201d Caring for yourself may feel unfamiliar, selfish, unrealistic, weak, or undeserved. 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If you are feeling depleted, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or unable to cope as you normally would, consider reaching out to a supervisor, a trusted coworker, or workplace support.\u00a0\"}}]}<\/script><div class=\"faq-accordion\"><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-0\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-0\" class=\"faq-label\">Why can self-care feel hard for caregivers?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-care can feel hard when your identity is tied to being \u201cthe helper.\u201d Caring for yourself may feel unfamiliar, selfish, unrealistic, weak, or undeserved. For some caregivers, pushing through becomes so normal that fatigue, emotional numbness, or burnout can be mistaken for \u201cbeing fine.\u201d<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-1\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-1\" class=\"faq-label\">But, isn\u2019t self-care selfish?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">No. Caring for yourself is not separate from caring for others. It is one part of sustaining your ability to continue doing care work with compassion, patience, and presence.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-2\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-2\" class=\"faq-label\">Why bother when self-care can\u2019t fix workplace or system pressures?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Self-care does not replace the need for safer, healthier systems of work. It does not remove workplace responsibilities related to psychological health and safety. But it can still help caregivers support their own physical, emotional, and psychological wellbeing.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-3\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-3\" class=\"faq-label\">What does practical self-care look like?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Practical self-care can include taking your entitled breaks, setting boundaries, asking for help earlier, admitting when you are tired, booking a health appointment you have been putting off, or speaking to yourself with the same kindness you would offer someone else.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-4\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-4\" class=\"faq-label\">What if I feel guilty taking a break?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Feeling guilty can be common, especially when you are used to putting others first. But rest does not have to be earned. Taking breaks and meeting your own needs can help protect your capacity to keep showing up in the work you care about.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-5\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-5\" class=\"faq-label\">How can I start if self-care feels uncomfortable?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Start small. Choose one need you have been ignoring and one practical step you can take today. That might be taking a full break, asking for support, setting a boundary, or letting yourself rest before you reach burnout.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"faq-item\"><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"faq-9421-6\" class=\"faq-input\"><label for=\"faq-9421-6\" class=\"faq-label\">When should I ask for support?   <span class=\"faq-chevron\"><svg width=\"28\" height=\"28\" viewBox=\"0 0 20 20\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" fill=\"none\"><path stroke=\"#aa0635\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M4 7l6 6 6-6\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><div class=\"faq-content\"><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">You do not have to wait until you are burned out to ask for help. If you are feeling depleted, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or unable to cope as you normally would, consider reaching out to a supervisor, a trusted coworker, or workplace support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caregivers often offer compassion freely to others, but struggle to extend that same care to themselves. 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